Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Miyoko's 1st Year

Our little princess has just turned 1 year old! It has been a very fun and exciting 1 year for all of us ~ Princess herself, we the slaves, and our family. Look forward to see more fun months and years ahead!

1st Month

Starts to clown around with her many funny expressions. Looking so much like Daddy!
 
 

2nd Month

Her 1st Chinese New Year. Looking very tomboy despite the hairband.
1st swim & spa experience. Starts her neck muscle exercises.
 


 3rd month

Successfully lifts up head on her own! Trying a new retro girly look.
Goes for her 1st haircut at a salon.



4th month

Strikes a cutesy model pose in her new dress. Acts like a big boss on her new ikea highchair.
Training to hold milk bottle on her own. First encounter with cake & candles on Mummy's birthday.
Having fun in her playground. 1st sashimi-viewing experience.
 
 

5th month

Gets to play in a rented exersaucer for a month.  Learns to sit unassisted.
1st encounter with Hello Kitty. Turning into a couch potato.
Starts on semi-solids and hated it! Still prefers durian to cereals.
 
 

6th month

Gets to play in a rented jumperoo for a month. Celebrates 1st Father's day.
Surprise visit to grandpa's office and trying to act like a boss. Daddy gets her a bumbo seat as her princess throne.
Acting cool for 1st swimming experience but cried throughout the time in pool.
 
 

7th month

Daddy pampers her with a 3-in-1 tricycle. Grandma sets up a playground at her home for Miyoko.
Has her first taste of 纸包鸡. Begins to crawl around.
1st & hopefully last encounter with the unusual kind who licked her cheek ~ Yucks! Starts to stand and jump at her cot.
 
 

8th month

Starts to show an interest in pebbles. Learns to walk with push-walker gift from Mummy.
Cruising around at home. Gets more adventurous at home.
 
 

9th month

Still cruising around. Acts cute again with a new hat from 姨姨.
1st time sitting in a supermarket trolley. 1st indoor playground experience @Fidgets.
Grandma can't stand her messy hair and ties it up, looking so Ah Girl! Starts her trail of destruction at home.
 
 

 

 
 

10th month

Tries KFC chicken rice and loved it! Starts to stand unassisted.
 
Celebrates AhKe's birthday. Goes for 1st movie ~ enjoyed 1st 15 mins, cried next 15 mins, slept thru rest of the movie.
Realises it's fun to wash hands at the water feature. Gets another new hat from 姨姨
 
First family trip ~ 4D3N cruise to Penang & Malacca 
 
 

 
 

11th month

2nd visit to indoor playground, this time at Hokey Pokey.
Starts to walk unassisted and begins practising for 2013's CNY visiting. Celebrates Daddy's birthday.
 
Meets great-grandma for lunch with baby cousin




12th month

Attends 1st SSO concert ~ totally not interested in it!
Starts to walk in public places. 1st taste of beer can.
Starts to explore drawers and utensils.
Has 4 upper teeth & 2 lower teeth by 1 year old. Celebrates 1st birthday with family & close friends.

Thursday, November 29, 2012

1st family trip ~ The Legend of the Seas


-->The booking, preparation, check-in/out

After being grounded for 16 months, I was dying for a holiday. I would prefer flying somewhere but hubby wanted cruise. To me, going on cruise means being stuck on a floating hotel with nothing to do but since hubby’s never been on one and he’s the paymaster, I just followed his wishes. Plus with a 10.5months old baby who still needs her 6 feeds of milk daily, it seemed more convenient to be on a cruise.

Based on good reviews online, we selected Royal Caribbean Cruise ~ The Legend of the Seas. Request for brochure and pricelist was via email. Booking was made via phone. It’s interesting to note that it was cheaper in August than in July. So early birds don’t necessarily get a better deal! I guess as everything onboard is charged in USD, the original fare was probably in USD, hence the difference in pricing due to fluctuating exchange rate.

I almost didn’t want to proceed when I was told babies pay full adult fare. Hello? How much food do you expect babies to eat?! Star Cruises only charged 25% of adult fare for babies. I was so going to switch until I heard mostly poor reviews on Star Cruises, so full fare it shall be. Then I was told because it was 3 persons in a room, we can only choose selected (and more expensive) cabins meant for 3-4 persons. I kept telling them my baby does not need a bed but rules are rules, we were left with no choice but take the Large Ocean View room. 

With gratuities & tax included, our total fare was S$1500 for 4D3N cruise to Penang and Malacca (excludes shore excursions), departing on 31 Oct 2012.  Legend of the Seas, here we come!

 
--> The check-in

At the Marina Bay Cruise Centre, we were given priority check-in as we were with a baby. However the priority was quite useless as the ship wasn’t ready and we weren’t allowed to enter immigration because of that. So we were still stuck with the rest of the passengers waiting in front of immigration. We waited 30mins and there were 2 long queues by then.

Once onboard, there were no signage or anyone guiding us where to go until I approached a crew who told us to take a lift up to The Windjammer Café for lunch. Then everyone started rushing for the lift. Luckily we were kiasu enough to park ourselves right in front of immigration gate earlier on and was among the first few to board the ship and rush for lunch. Halfway through our meal the restaurant was packed. There weren’t enough tables and people were loitering near diners who were almost done to get a table. Desperate ones shared tables.

 
--> Our Cabin 

The cabin was smaller than we expected but still acceptable. With a queen-sized bed and living area with sofa, it’s quite comfortable. But wait, where’s my baby crib?! I had requested for one during booking and the confirmation stated my request clearly. When I asked the stateroom attendant, he seemed surprised and told me he’ll try to get one. He did manage to get a playpen WITHOUT a mattress. Are you expecting baby to sleep on a soft playpen with a hard cross-bar base? I’ve never travelled with a baby before and don’t know if it’s standard practice to provide playpen without a mattress. Maybe they assume all babies sleep with parents on the bed while playpen is just a play area. Although he used a thick blanket to make into a makeshift “mattress”, it’s still too thin. In the end I used 2 pillows to line the base and covered with a bedsheet. It’s actually quite dangerous as babies can get suffocated by the soft pillows so I checked on her often at night. On the last night I let baby sleep between us on the bed.

The toilet was small with limited toiletries. I’m glad we brought our own. No baby tub so poor baby cried whenever it’s bath time as she’s scared of the shower.
 
Comfy bed with a great view
 
The small little toilet
 
Confined baby to sofa while waiting for the playpen


--> Activities

There were many activities onboard. Free: Swim, rock-climb, dance lessons, watch movies. With charges: karaoke, casino, spa. For kids there are clubs for babies below 3yrs, activity clubs for 3-11yrs, 12-17yrs. I saw a crew conducting activities for those in the 3-11yrs club and they seemed to enjoy it. Their parents are probably the happiest since they can park their kids there. For us, there is the Royal Babies & Tots play area filled with Fisher-Price toys. A parent must accompany the baby so we went there for 2 mornings to let baby play with the toys there and interact with other babies. We borrowed some toys for free to play in cabin too.
Overwhelmed with toys at play area
 
Borrowed these to play in cabin


Half the cabin belongs to baby with separate play & sleep areas
 

The casino provides demo lesson on how to play some games in the afternoons. There are also “How to play” guidecards available. As the casino was situated in the middle of the ship, there were a few occasions we pushed the stroller with baby right through it to get to the restaurant situated at the back of the ship. Some gamblers stared at us as we passed through but no crew stopped us.

Hubby went for a swim and commented it’s small and salty. He just dipped for a while and roasted himself on the deckchair while listening to loud music blasting away like what most others did. Baby & I relaxed at the sofa indoor, overlooking the vast sea while listening to live piano performance. Spa services weren’t very cheap and I wasn’t sure if it’s good so we didn’t go for it.

At night there are live shows which I managed to catch only on the first night. Poor hubby missed all as he had to babysit baby. The dancing was ok, the singing was just too loud. One guy beside me even covered his ears when the performer was singing. Needless to say, he left half-way through the show. On the whole, nothing much hubby missed.

There are boutiques onboard but really nothing much to buy. There is the usual souvenir shop selling tshirts, mugs etc with RC logos. There are shops selling Guess and LeSportSac bags, swatch watches and sportswear too. On the 2nd day, there was a cheap sale of everything going at $10 at the bazaar area that included scarves, hats, beach bags. On the 3rd day they had a watch sale. For a while I thought I was at some pasar malam or Expo sale as there were many people crowded around a few tables stacked with boxes of watch. Then they countdown “5,4,3,2,1!” together and started grabbing it. I can’t remember how good the discount was but it was quite an amusing scene.

 
--> Food & Beverages

Lots to eat onboard but not necessarily satisfying. For all meals, there is a choice of buffet at The Windjammer Café or ala-carte at The Romeo &Juliet restaurant. All free as it has been included in the cruise fare.  We chose buffet breakfast on Day 2 & 3. It was very crowded at 9+ and we had to share table. Reasonable variety of food but nothing to rave about. Anyway we had no intention to stuff ourselves. Having tried the lunch buffet on Day 1, we went to The Romeo & Juliet restaurant for lunch. Not too crowded but we had to share table as they always try to fill up the 10-seater tables. The menu looked good, the food looked good but the taste didn’t quite match it. I only liked the salad where I chose the ingredients and they tossed it for me on the spot.

For dinner we went to The Romeo & Juliet restaurant for all 3 nights. They divide the diners into 2 seatings: 6pm & 8.15pm, and there is a fixed table number for all guests. There is also a “My Time” seating where you reserve the timing for meal, however it was fully reserved when I booked the cruise. We were in the 6pm seating which is ideal since baby’s bedtime is 9.30pm. Nice presentation with so-so food and portions enough to fill the stomach but not feel full. There were a few items which I liked though I was too embarrassed to ask for seconds. Service was great. There were 2 waiters assigned to our table for the 3 nights. I guess this is for better personalized service and easier for feedback and gratuities. On the last night, all the waiters in The Romeo & Juliet restaurant performed for us.
Our designated table for 3 days

Dinner menu

Performance by the Romeo & Juliet crew
 

Outside of the standard meal times, there is tea-break available at the Windjammer Café which we didn’t try.  At night there is a snack bar near the pool with free flow of burgers, hotdogs, fries and pizza. That was our supper for 2 nights. There is also a café selling Ben & Jerry’s ice-cream.

Supper in the cabin
 
 
Standard drinks like lemonade, orange juice, coffee and tea are available throughout the day for free. Soda and alcohol are chargeable. On the first day they tried to sell us a “Soda Package” where we can have unlimited soda drinks at US$6.95 per day (must buy as a package for 3 days). It comes with a nice tumbler but we decided we won’t die without soda drinks.

The bar is open throughout the day too so we can have our alcohol fix anytime of the day. Prices seem cheap at first but after you add in the 15% gratuity and convert all to USD, it’s similar to prices in Singapore. Quite a good selection available. I had their cocktail Drink of the Day for 2 nights. At $6.95 per drink with a free glass as souvenir it was a quite a good deal.


--> Shore Excursions

Shore excursions were well organized in terms of moving us off to the buses in batches. We didn’t quite enjoy our Penang excursion as it was very rushed and we missed our 6pm dinner seating and had to queue up for table at the 8pm seating. We also missed the Captain’s speech. I wished they had informed us of that evening’s activities before we booked the excursions. At least we can decide which to forego.

Malacca was more enjoyable and relaxing. The tendering process was well organized and fast although I find it scary when I embarked and disembarked the boats.

 
--> The overall experience

On the whole, the cruise experience was good and I would recommend Royal Caribbean cruise to others. However I feel it’s probably better to go on a cruise when baby is older. If younger, it’s better to go with a helper or family members so that they can help take care of baby sometimes while you enjoy some of the facilities and shows. I’m not sure if it’s due to teething, unfamiliar environment or wrong timing, baby was very demanding and difficult to handle during the trip. Luckily hubby was wonderful in his babysitting role, ever so patient and took care of baby most of the time. We hope to go on a cruise again in future (when baby’s old enough to join the kids playgroup onboard), maybe a fly-cruise package departing from overseas port. Saving up now!

Monday, February 20, 2012

5D4N stay at Mt Alvernia Resort

"Thanks" to little princess, we got to "enjoy" a 5D4N stay at Mt Alvernia hospital. Normal delivery is 3D2N but coz I'm c-sect case, had to stay longer. Although room rate is 50% more, we were glad we chose single-bedded room. Hubby could then stay for the night. My hubby & visitors were also more relaxed since it's just us in it. For hubby, it's compulsary to add on "companion fee" of $75 that includes 3 meals & the snacks. The companion's food was really good compared to my miserable soft diet (due to the c-sect), and later confinement diet.

In general, it was a pleasant stay at the resort. Quiet & clean environment. Nurses were nice although a bit slow in responding at times. And the staff i/c of food was quite irritating, popping often within an hour after food is served to clear food trays, as if in a rush to knock off work.

Single bed room @St Rapheal ward

Got balcony to kaypoh outside. To me, it's a waste of space!
Ahke & zhuzhu stayed at the resort too!

Ahke enjoying a sunbathing session at the balcony
My boring confinement meal

Hubby's yummy western meal. Like room service lor!

Hubby's breakfast

Tea time!

The total bill came up to almost $10k!! It included the resort stay, medication, gynae, anaesthetist & pd fees. We managed to claim half from Medisave, paying almost $5k cash. A bit heartpain but worth every cent spent.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Arrival of our little Princess

Our little Princess Miyoko 朱明艳 has arrived on 14 Dec 2011! Miyoko (Japanese kanji 美代子)means "beautiful child for generations". Her Chinese name means bright and pretty.
She was due to arrive by 13 Dec but she was late. On the 13th, we went for check-up. Gynae gave us choice to induce that week or wait max. a week later. Hubby n I decided to induce on 13th. We went for a quick lunch then rushed to home to pack my hospital bag before heading down to the hospital.

Mood was quite relaxed on the way there although deep in my heart, I was very worried about inducing labour as I've heard many cases where it failed and ended up as emergency c-section. Upon reaching the hospital, the staff brought us to the labour ward. Changed into hospital gown, cleared my bowels and rest on bed at around 3pm while hubby settled the admission paperwork.
Delivery suite














After the drip for induce labour started, the contractions came on steadily. I've always thought the pain is at the lower abdomen but it's actually near my ribcage. It was bearable but at 5pm I decided to take epidural. Once on epidural, it wasn't that painful anymore but I started shivering and didn't stop till 2 hrs later, followed by fever. All side effects of epidural. We killed time by watching tv. I tried to sleep but it was difficult with the shivering, headache & fever.

Doctor burst my waterbag at 6pm when dilation was 3cm. The midwife told me I've a lot of water and it's greenish, meaning baby has started to poo inside me. Hearing that, I'm glad we made the decision to induce her coz I don't want baby to eat her own poo inside!

Zhuzhu giving me moral & wrist support in delivery suite














At 10pm, my dilation was 4cm which is considered slow. Doctor increased my drip dosage but that caused baby's heartbeat rate to drop so he lowered the dosage. At 1am, dilation remained unchanged at 4cm. At this point, my doctor told me frankly that labour isn't progressing well and my cervix is begining to swell. I was given 2 options: wait another 3hrs to see if I'll dilate further or go for c-sect. We chose to wait. It must have been the longest 3hrs I've waited. I couldn't sleep due to headache & fever while hubby was snoring away!

At 4.30am, no change in dilation and cervix swollen, meaning I have to be cut up! Immediately the nurses sprang into action, calling the doctors, operating theatre team etc. Amidst all the action in the labour room, hubby was still in sleepy state. As I'm opting for epidural instead of GA, the nurse asked my hubby if he wants to be present in the OT. While he was thinking in his dreamy state, I immed replied for him "Yes!". I was afraid of being alone and awake while being cut. I also wanted him to witness the birth of his little princess.

In the OT, the anaesthetist asked me twice if I want to be asleep but I chose to be awake. He administered the drugs and asked me if could move my legs and I managed to do so, surprising him. I suspect he didn't dare to administer a high dose. I also almost puked which I think could be due to the drugs. Hubby was beside me all the while but I didn't realise it. I thought c-sect means a long cut across tummy and carry baby out. Wrong! It means cut a 12-13cm line to create hole big enough for baby's head to be pushed out like in natural birth. I didn't expect that at all. The anaesthetist was pushing my tummy with all his might. Although no pain, I could feel the pushing force. Finally in what seemed like a long time (actually few minutes only), I heard the baby's cries. And that's when I was aware of hubby's presence beside me coz he started to sayang my head. I guess before that he's at a loss on what to do, coz he saw my tummy being cut and the bloody insides. No more pig organs soup for him!

When the nurse brought her over to us, I was overwhelmed with emotions. Tears kept flowing. I can finally meet this lovely little one who has been inside me for the past 9 months. I'm going to miss her kicks and hiccups in my tummy. Going to miss sayang my tummy and talking to her everyday. The anaesthetist helped us take a few photos then hubby left with the nurse and baby to the nursery while the doctor sewed me up.

in the OT

I guess by then either the drugs effect was wearing off or it wasn't able to control the womb contraction pain. I suddenly felt intense pain at my stomach. I remember I kept saying aloud it's painful and cried. The anaesthetist told me it's part of process and next moment he put a mask over me. Probably to numb my pain & shut me up! Almost immediately I became very drowsy. Felt them transferring me to the ward, heard the nurse telling my hubby that all single rooms are full and I'll be in a double room for time-being but I couldn't say anything or move.

When I was more awake an hour later, I felt very lonely. Hubby was nowhere in sight, I couldn't reach the bedside phone to call him, baby wasn't around. Then came those irritating promoters selling their family & baby photo package, baby's hair brush package etc. I wish the hospital stop them coz it's interrupting my rest! Hubby came in later coz he thot I was sleeping and it's not convenient for him to be in the room before 8am since the other bed is occupied. I was transferred to a single room later in the day. 

Welcome to the world, little Princess!

Can't believe we've been upgraded to PARENTS status now! Now I really start to feel old liao....